The Perks of Being Single During the Holidays

Anyone who's suddenly found themselves single will know what a culture shock it can be. All the things you used take for granted–guaranteed company at the weekend, a delicious meal waiting for you when you've had to work late, someone to listen to your angry rants about pet hates–are abruptly taken away.

Perhaps worst of all, that holiday you'd booked when you were still together is blatantly not an option anymore, unless you particularly feel like sharing four hours trapped in a pressurised metal container with your ex. Your only options now are either to try and persuade a friend or relative to give up their own romantic break to come with you or try and convince yourself that holidays are actually overrated, and that you'd much rather spend two weeks catching up on those spreadsheet reports at work.

There is of course, another option, and it's one that is becoming increasingly popular: go by yourself. Granted, your confidence may not be at an all-time high following a break-up, but a trip to foreign climes, away from the memories of the past may be just the thing you need.

In fact, so many people are now choosing to travel alone that some holiday companies are offering specialised 'singles holidays set up specifically for lone travellers. Don’t be put off by the name; these trips are not some 18-30s knees up in a Spanish resort fuelled by cheap sangria and frequented by lads and ladies on the pull. Instead they provide a way for people to enjoy the benefits of travelling with others (cheaper rates, companionship, safety) while still maintaining a strong sense of independence.

When you set off to travel by yourself, there's none of that annoying "compromise" business that can plague holidays taken as a couple. From the big decisions like which country to visit, to the small details like the choice between visiting that famous monument at the crack of dawn or lounging in bed till 11am and then having a cocktail on the beach, holidays are full of decisions. Having to compromise on several of these choices on one trip can often lead to a lovely, relaxing holiday where neither person does any of the things they really wanted to, and secretly resents their partner as a result.   

There are a huge variety of trips available for people who want to do some travelling by themselves, while having the option to join up with a larger group for some parts of their trip. From taking in the culture in some of the world’s most amazing cities, to getting active on a trekking or cycling tour, to heading out on a true adventure to an African safari or polar expedition, single travellers really can enjoy a world of possibilities. Adventure tours are particularly suited to single travellers, as they encourage people to venture into the unknown and experience a world outside of their comfort zone. Plus, for single people joining up on a white-water rafting trip or three-day hike, adventure tours are a fantastic way to meet and bond with new people. 

This is one of the best things about going on holiday as a single traveller. Although you may set out alone, travelling by yourself is a great way to meet a fantastic variety of people from all over the world, from fellow travellers to members of the local populace. Couples frequently give off an unspoken and often quite unintended aura that suggests they don't want to be bothered. When you travel alone, it's so much easier to meet interesting new people, without them having to worry about ruining your romantic break. Plus, if you happen to meet someone who happens to be travelling to the most amazing sounding island paradise the next morning, there's no debate on whether or not to join them. The only person you have to consult is yourself.

Who knows, while you travel the world meeting fascinating like-minded people, you may even find that special someone ready for next year's holiday!

Hi I'm Daniel and I enjoy writing about travel and sharing my experiences from around the globe.